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(Disclaimer: Pardon me for my use of uncouth language. I am really pissed at how pathetic and whiny people can be. I really wish you would not be lazy and read the whole post, because I think it might apply to you. Btw, my own opinion, not yours. And I know my EL gets rather atrocious when I'm pissed.)

I personally believe that you are what you are, and people shouldn’t diss you for being who you are. Why should people hate you for being real, and why should you apologize for being real? At least you’re not putting up a facade. A masquerade of masks isn’t what you put on everyday, so why should people hate you for that?

I say, be yourself and don’t change yourself because of what others perceive you as. Change because you want to, not because you are being forced to. If no one likes you for what you are, just know that they hate you because you are different. “They laugh at me because I’m different; I laugh at them because they’re all the same” is a quote that you should imprint in your mind, because it holds a lot of meaning to one’s life. Why go with the status quo? Why follow your peers blindly, just because it is trendy and everyone’s doing it? Fuck the flow, fuck the trend and fuck the stereotypes; be what and who you want to be and life will be so much easier.

“But I don’t want to be lonely.” Well, do what you want then. Forcing yourself to be this something that you are not… if that’s what you want to do, then go ahead. Coercing yourself to conform to society’s expectations of you, just because you want to be accepted by society. You’re just betraying yourself and cheating yourself.

I am absolutely sick of all of you people who judge, stereotype, label and outcast people. You are a human, and they are humans as well. Who, or what, gave you the fucking crown and let you be the fucking king of the world and let you decide who will be “in” and who will be “out”? You’re going to outcast a person just because he/she is different from you? Well, you know what? At least they are not like mindless puppets that follows whatever the fuck is considered the “in” thing to do; they have a brain, and they know what they fucking want to do. So who are you to judge? Who are you to make these unique individuals feel inferior compared to you fucking puppets that mindlessly, blindly follow whatever you do or say?

You’re nothing, that’s all you are. Fucking nothing, fucking trash, fucking anal losers who don’t have a fucking life of your own. All you can do is just copy, follow, copy, follow. You don’t have a fucking mind of your own! All your decisions are decided by other people, and your life? Controlled by other people as well. You have no fucking life, so who are you to decide how other people’s life’s should be?

“When you judge another, you do not define them. You define yourself.”
- Wayne Dyer

To the minority group of people who are unique yet ostracized:

Be who you are. Be confident of yourself, and in what you do. And if people hate you for that, who gives a fuck about them? They aren’t worth your time, aren’t worth anyfuckingthing.

I find it fucking ridiculous for these people (mindless puppets!!) to just hate you and try to bring you down just because you’re who you are, which separates you from the rest of those same-minded people. They don’t even fucking know you, so who are they to judge you and try to make the whole fucking world hate you?

And if you’re being ostracized, then please, please, don’t try to change yourself and impress those people who hate you. Don’t try to fit in with them, just because they are the majority and you are the minority. Just find your own group of friends, and just be who you are, because that’s so much easier than acting.

People just judge you on what they think you will do, on who they think you are. But there’s really nothing you can do about it. Just remember one thing: they’re not cheating you, they’re cheating themselves.

Don’t fall into the misconception that you have to act a certain way in order to be liked. That is a completely fucked up statement and probably created by some mindless puppet as well. Because, as we all know, or end up knowing from experience, that even if you act the way they want you to, they’ll still hate you, because that’s how immature they are! Just be you, because that’s real and how life is supposed to be. Being you and not being anybody else.

Lead your life, instead of life leading you. This is YOUR life, and NOBODY ELSE’S. You do what you love, and fuck the rest. As quoted from Dr. Seuss,

“Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you.”

And as for those who are moping around and thinking their lives are shit, please wake up from your self-pitying delusion and remember that life does not, and WILL NOT accommodate you, it will shatter you. It is meant to, and it couldn’t do it better. Every seed destroys its container, or else there would be no fruition.

You want to see a change in the world? Then step ahead and be the change that you want to see in the world. Take the first step instead of hiding and whining all your life, because it is useless and you can never be happy that way.

Your past is also meant to be put behind you, and stop dwelling on regrets, for what’s done is done. There’s no fucking thing as a ‘time machine’, so stop wishing for one and stop wishing for time to rewind back, because there is just no such thing. Learn from your mistake, rectify it and look forward to the future. Because that’s really all you can do. To err is human, afterall. Why be so harsh on yourself? Everyone will have, at least once in their life, committed a mistake in folly.

Just live happy, that’s all you need to know. Live happy. Rather of moping and whining, make the best of what you have and live your life to the fucking fullest, because this is your only life. Your only life, so why live it in desolation? You don’t need other people to make you happy, damn it. You need to make yourself happy first and foremost, before you can expect anyone to give you and aid in giving you the happiness you expect in return.

Something that everyone should remember, and commit to memory, is that there are millions of people in the world who are way worse off than you. People living in poverty; people who don’t have a roof over their head; people who has lost one or more of the human’s most vital senses; people who don’t even have a family. These people would die to be in your shoes and so many people are not fucking appreciative of what they fucking have! Oh, and how many people get bullied and are neglected and told no one loves them? People with boyfriends or girlfriends or simply loving families often take for granted how lucky they really are, for not everyone is that fortunate to have people who have their back and will hold their hand through hell and high waters.

Learn to deal with the curveballs life throws at you, for nothing in life is fair. Or, you can look at it in a positive way – life is unfair for everyone, thus life is fair. See? Having and maintaining a positive attitude will literally brighten up your life. Digressing, life is one hurdle after another, some more difficult than the other. However, if you constantly cry and whine because you didn’t, or can’t, get what you want, life’s going to seem a whole lot tougher than you like. Make the most of what you have, because not everyone is so lucky.

And what you might think is the worst day of your life could also have been your best, for when a heart breaks, it also opens; and once a heart opens, any number of things can happen, and some of them can be wonderful.